Lucy, 25, is the classic girl from next door, with almost no makeup and wavy brown hair. She’s very attractive, but the bars and the clubs aren’t the place where men fall on their knees in front of her.
“I’ve always liked to be the dominant partner”, says Lucy. “With my boyfriends, I always was the one in charge of what we were doing during sex.
Still, I felt that my real-life partners didn’t allow me to explore my fantasies freely and fully, without judgement or stigma.
Once I tried to restrain my then-boyfriend with handcuffs. He was pretty shocked, and he broke up with me the morning after without any particular reason other than my “sluttiness”.
I thought that I would never be able to express this side of myself, until I saw online an ad for a free trial phone sex number, and the curiosity made me decide to call it.
On an adult live phone chat, you can listen to the personal messages of the men before deciding with whom you want to connect, so I looked for someone who was interested in being dominated by a woman.
Since then, I have never abandoned my trusted phone sex number, and I never miss to call it at least twice a week for some kinky fun.
The most common fantasy among men is sissy humiliation. They ask me to act as if I was dressing them in fancy female clothes, applying make-up to their faces and teaching them how to walk in high heels.
Some want me to imagine that I’m fucking them with a strap on and calling them a slut, while others don’t look for sex talk at all, and just focus on the psychological aspects of the BDSM dynamic.
Needless to say, I enjoy it a lot, mainly because it makes me feel powerful and in charge.
I feel like I’m responsible for those guys’ pleasure, and that I need to be the best Dominant I can be to make the most of the call.
That’s why I never start a BDSM scene over the phone without a deep, meaningful discussion about my partner’s limits and my own.”
