A Phone Sex Life

My friend over at The Social Arrow is having another contest but this time, it’s a mega contest with over 40,000 EC, gifts and lots of other great things offered. You should check it out, Social Media Mega Marketing Contest.

The question is: What is the social media I use and that works best for me. I use Entrecard for 95% of whatever my blog needs. I am a baby blogger, only about 1.5 months into it and Entrecard had me getting 50 hits and 300 pageviews in my first week without me even registering my blog anywhere else and barely one post. I would recommend Entrecard to anybody with a blog because, it’s easy, its fun, and you meet a lot of bloggers who are willing to help and show you the ropes. Entrecard is a great, FREE outlet for bloggers because it helps you get your blog out there by advertising on others blogs and gaining Entrecard credits(money) to get your blog out there. I dedicate about 2 hours a day to Entrecard dropping and browsing the forum(which in itself will get you loads of traffic without even dropping). It’s not the fastest way, it does get time consuming and you feel bad when you don’t drop cards but it works on your traffic ranking.

I heard that Entrecard messes up the Alexa ranking but my ranking gets better and better with each week, my ranking at first was 1.5 million or so and now look at it in just under 2 months.

The next media outlet I use is Blog Catalog, it is pretty much a community of bloggers that list there blogs and get friends and post in forums, basically its the bloggers Myspace. I don’t really do too much on there, I probably dedicate 2 hours a week to it, if that but I get a couple hits a week from there, and my friends list is loading up on there. I guess if I worked it more, like Entrecard, than I would get many more hits but I love it.

The next thing I use is Twitter, its fun in a general sense and I’m sure I get a couple hits a day from there and it can really help your blog but I wouldn’t call it a huge social medial outlet.

I want to get into Stumble but everytime I attempt to understand it, I fail and get frustrated but I heard that Stumble can have your Alexa score in that top 100,000 pretty fast and your traffic reach huge numbers. One day I’ll make myself understand it.

Name: Demian

Age: 34

Gender: M

Have you ever had phone sex? Y

Has a significant other ever wanted to have phone sex? Y

Did you both cum? Y

What were they into? Were you shocked, explain She wanted me to hold her legs open while another guy fucked her.  She wanted me to put his dick in her.  I blew my load when I heard that.

Did/do you two have phone sex often? N

Everyone has a secret fetish, what is yours? Don’t be shy… Making the fantasy she shared with me come true.

Have you ever called a phone sex service? Y

What was your fantasy? Group sex, watching my S/O (above) get fucked.

Did she/he make you cum? Y

Did/do you call the service often? Y

What is your ultimate fantasy, the one you are probably nervous about admitting to yourself, think hard Having my S/O seriously cheat on me, for a long time, behind my back.

Don’t forget to take the survey here: Your Phone Sex Life

So we all like having a little oral sex when we are getting it on, don’t we? Or atleast I do….but there is another side to this and some people like the thought of being Forced to perform these oral acts of sexual pleasure.

Forced Suck or Forced Eat…..just think about it.

You have a guy or a girl who claim they won’t ever do this and you want it, so what do you do? You force them to do it of course.

You strap them down to the bed or wherever and you make them perform these lude acts of pleasure on you, you make them spend hours licking or sucking or both….whatever is your pleasure.

This isn’t necessarily a fetish as it is more of a fantasy, like rape. This fantasy is beneficial to either party because you can get off on thinking of forcing someone or you can get off on being forced, so it goes great both ways.

Most calls I have are guys who want me to force them to perform oral sex on me in different positions. They like the thought of me saying nasty, mean things to them like “you know you want to”, or “you’re eating my disgusting pussy”, things of that nature.

This fantasy sometimes leads to other things like forced shoe sniffing, forced sock sniffing, butt sniffing, toe sucking…it doesn’t and sometimes is not about sex, its about the force of the act, the making a person do something they don’t want to or pretend not to…

It’s a fun fantasy without the bad stuff in my opinion because this is usually when both parties are willing to act out and have fun and like I said, its not always about the sex.

xoxo…

The contest is over and I am very pleased with the results, thank you to everyone who voted.

Here are the Winners:

1st place: Ron

2nd place: : Desire

3rd place: Goddess

1st Place:

• 4000 Entrecard Credits
• Permanent Link in my Blogroll
• 1 month link on Daily Free Software
• I will design a banner for you, different sizes to choose from

2nd Place:

• 2000 Entrecard Credits
• Permanent Link on My Girl Quest
• 1 month link on my blogroll

3rd Place:

• 1000 Entrecard Credits
• 1 month link on Good Recipes

Congratulations and I will be sending your credits today. You are required to contact any other winnings you have, I won’t do it for you, just let the sponsor know that you have won this contest, and give them a link to the prizes. Good luck!

xoxo…

The entries are in and its time to select a winner for my first contest. Again, lets look at the prizes….

1st Place:

• 4000 Entrecard Credits
• Permanent Link in my Blogroll
• 1 month link on Daily Free Software
• I will design a banner for you, different sizes to choose from

2nd Place:

• 2000 Entrecard Credits
• Permanent Link on My Girl Quest
• 1 month link on my blogroll

3rd Place:

• 1000 Entrecard Credits
• 1 month link on Good Recipes

I would like to take this moment to thank all my sponsors for contributing to this contest.

Daily Free Sofware

Good Recipes

Stir The Cauldron

Fragile Heart

Monkey Chapps

Lee Doyle|U Drop/I Follow

My Girl Quest

Eyes On Hollywood

If you win, it is your responsibility to contact the Site for your blogroll linking. Give them the link to the results and you should be good to go. Again, thank you to everyone who participated and everyone for voting.

Describe the ultimate sexual experience that anyone would love.

Contestant 1: Riyanne says: Ultimate sexual experience - to make love with LOVE.

Contestant 2: Desire says:  Giving and getting pleasure at the same time. Imagine giving a man some head and your working him. Your hands are moving up and down on his hard penis with lots of saliva, and you’re enjoying it. you’re getting off just watching him get off. And while your looking up at him, you begin to feel kisses on your vagina. You begin to stroke him faster and faster to keep up the speed with the kisses on your vagina. The kisses begin to quicken and you feel fire in your loins. You look up at him and you see his eyes on the woman who is licking your vagina. While you continue to deep throat him the tongue on your clit flickers back and forth and you began to come, and you shake and all you can do is continue to stroke the penis in your mouth.

Contestant 3: Goddess says: The most desirable sexual experience would be to dissipate into a dream-like state and realize that you are surrounded by 5 of the sexiest men on the planet who have been sent to satisfy your every sexual need. Every man has a duty and does his part to satisfy a component of your sexuality all at the same time. So, from the example of my sexy men from a few posts back, I would have Tyson Beckford sucking my left nipple, Mos Def sucking my right nipple Matthew McConnoughy caressing my back, The Rock (Dwayne Johnson) sucking my lips, and Brad Pitt headed downtown on me all simultaneously! Sure I may cum in like less than 5 minutes but I would gladly say I’ve experienced heaven on earth and would never want to wake up from that sexual experience!!!

Contestant 4: Ron says: First it started with some short messages, flirting, exchange of photos, some very revealing… emails.
We arranged to meet, go on a date…
You live outside the city and I drive to pick you up at your home — as soon as we meet, we start kissing, touching, hard to control ourselves… and long passionate kissing, almost to the point of ripping off each others clothes, but we stop.
We then get in the car and drive to see a waterfall. On getting there, we walk hand in hand, as if we’ve been a couple for many years — yet, so much in love and desire of each other.
We get to the waterfall, a pool below the falls — and start to kiss more… take off each others clothes now, completely nude, and get into the water — you look so beautiful in the water nude, the water falling on you.
I have my camera with me, a digital SLR, and start taking photos of you — you are my beautiful model… and the pictures are amazing.
I put the camera down, nude as you are, and go over to you, start to kiss you again… kiss you beautiful lips, your neck, your nipples… and drinking the water on your glistening skin.
We move over to the side of the pool and find a beach, soft sand, and you lie down in it.
And now I kiss you, eat you, lick your warm… your so wet down there, and I lick your clit, hear your moans…
And as your coming, you pull me up, wanting my so very hard penis inside you — and I enter you… and move on you… your hands on my bum, pulling me deep inside you.
And you continue your long beautiful orgasm — and you’re so loud, moans and screams of pleasure, not caring who might hear… forgetting the entire world, it’s only you and me…
And as I feel your orgasm, so beautiful and long, finally my warm sperm comes inside you… and your face is so beautiful…
And we just hold each other, not wanting to leave…
Throughout all this, we didn’t realize someone was watching us — another sexy woman at the side of the falls, and she had picked up my camera and was taking photos of us… So, we had many beautiful photos to forever remember our first time making love.

Good luck to all the contestants and voting will be closed at 6:00pm Saturday, August 23. Tell all your friends to vote for you.

xoxo….

** Contest Ends Tonight at Midnight, Get those last minute Entries in: Contest **

Have you ever had phone sex? Yes

If no, do you want to? Again- sure

What were they into? Were you shocked, explain She was into having conjak, or whiskey on her cunt while I licked it off… I have always had a fantasy of giving a woman oral sex until she comes and is crazy for me an begs me to fuck her like crazy

Did/do you two have phone sex often? several times

Everyone has a secret fetish, what is yours? Don’t be shy… I didn’t say that before? Giving oral sex to a woman until she comes and comes and begs to get f**ked

Have you ever called a phone sex service? I did once

What was your fantasy? I don’t remember- was ages ago

Did she/he make you cum? I don’t know

Did/do you call the service often? no

If never, would you ever call? What would you want to talk about? guess my fantasy - see above

Do you think you would ever call? maybe - if you sound hot on the phone

What is your ultimate fantasy, the one you are probably nervous about admitting to yourself, think hard Not nervous about - two women at the same time.  I have done it, will do it again if I get a chance

Any comments or suggestions for my site? Maybe faster loading - otherwise -OK

Want to take this? Phone Sex Interview

xoxo…

Today’s lesson class: AB/DL or Adult Baby and Diaper Lovers

I must admit first though, this is a fetish and area that I am not really familar with. I know this community of sexual satisfication is growing in numbers but I have only minimal contact with this fetish.

Let’s start with the definitiions of this:

AB(Adult Baby) - the overwhelming need to be unconditionally taken care of. Wanting to give up being an adult and reverting back to the basic needs of dependancy. So this means giving up making all decisions, talking, and control on self. Suck as bowels. Reverting back to being a baby.

Take a minute and think of a baby and all that you have to do for a baby, now address that thought to a 40+ adult male. Freakish thought isn’t it?

DL(Diaper Lover) - a need to take care a baby. Being the caregiver in every aspect. This is a overwhelming want to have control and make all the decision and be the care-giver to someone.

Again think about this baby and all you do for it, if you had you choice would you say this is something you wish to do forever, especially to an adult. Changing diapers, bathing, feeding?

Let’s look at some of the construct of this fetish:

• The Adult baby is usually a 100% straight male, the man that lives next door to you.
• The Diaper Lover is usually a female but sometimes male.
• The role of parent-child is strongly suggested and play in this fetish.
• Sometimes their is a teenage babysitter for the caregiver.

Now I have always wondered what is the sexual gratification of this fetish because I don’t think I can get off thinking about or changing soiled diapers. Yes, REAL shitty and pissy diapers. In this fetish, like I said they give up all their adult control which includes bowels.

So sexually what do I, the Diaper Lover get out of this, well from what I read and the brief encounter I had with this fetish, there is sometimes sexual play involved. Things like masturbating the AB inside the diaper, or breastfeeding, cleaning the AB, or letting them explore me. For the AB, sexual gratification is found in the act of the role itself. So the act of putting on a huge diaper, a bonnet, booties, and sticking a pacifier in their mouth is enough to get their nasty cocks off.

Like I stated, I have one call with this fetish but because I was so ill-equipped with knowledge of this, I was not very god but he was easy to please, he wanted me, “mommy”, to change his dirty diaper and repeat the words “nannies(diapers) and huggies” to him over and over again. And say it in a way as if I was talking to a baby. It was so weird to me because I didn’t even know of this fetish and I could tell he was well into it because he was guiding me through it.

I also had a client email me in hopes that I would creat a recording for him that he could listen to. A recording detailiing how I would dress him up in his nanny(diaper) and give him a enema, then I would invite all my beautiful female friends over to watch him soil his diaper and laugh at him. Weird sexual releases I tell you, some people wish to have.

There are many, many free communitites online for this fetish, all you have to do is search google for them. Every and anything you wish dealing with this fetish is right at your fingertips now.

xoxo….

p.s. The contest will be done tomorrow at midnight, get those late entries in!!

Kitty Bradshaw has challenged me to a Sexy Music playlist challenge over at her site. The rules are for us to present a “Freaky Soundtrack” that conveys the love making experience. The playlist must contain 10 songs and be posted. To check out Kitty’s “Freaky Soundtrack, go here: Kitty’s Love Making Experience.

So without further ado, here is my playlist

I’ll let you guys know when it’s time to vote for the best… in the meantime listen to mine.

Right now, it seems that Entrecard has dropped me from there program and I am no longer allowed to participate with the advertising with other blogs. I am truly disheartened by this and I hope I can rectify the problem that I seemed to have with my blog. They stated that my blog is fine but my ads is a problem. I’m guessing its the nudity that is displayed in my ads. As of right now, I have removed all ads from my sidebar and I will replace them with less offensive ads to you, my readers, and to the programs that I use.

So since Entrecard has suspended my account and have taken away the 15000 credits that I had, I will not be able to reward the winners of my challenge just yet. So I’m going to extend the contest to August 20 and then voting to begin on August 21.

Again, I apologize to any reader or site that I have offended with my ads.

xoxo

Name: Mae

Age: 27

Gender: Female

Have you ever had phone sex? Yes

Has a significant other ever wanted to have phone sex? Yes

Did you both cum? No

What were they into? Were you shocked, explain A lot of rough and anal action.

Did/do you two have phone sex often? Yes

Everyone has a secret fetish, what is yours? Don’t be shy… Having oral performed on me.

Have you ever called a phone sex service? No

If never, would you ever call? What would you want to talk about? No

Do you think you would ever call? No

What is your ultimate fantasy, the one you are probably nervous about admitting to yourself, think hard Rape

Any comments or suggestions for my site? None yet

..side note:

Mr. Fast over at My Girl Quest has presented me with the Kick Ass Blogger Award. I am very flattered and glad that I am entertaining and original to be deserving this award. I try to be the only one in my category…lol.

I present this award to:

Goddess over at Sex On The Beach Magazine: for having and talking about the *shhh things of the sex world. I love it…he site is edgy and adverturuous.

Turnip over at Turnip of Power: her site is great and has loads of information on optimizing your blog and pushing it to the limit.

Lady Rose over at Stir The Cauldron: this site is my secret obsession…lol. I am loving all thing tarot and spiritual in this sense. I love reading her site.

Don’t forget to enter the contest…….time is running out!!!!!

xoxo…